Definitely meant jealousy, but since you're here...
Let's talk about it!
I'm feeling down in the dumps today, so I want to share some of my favorite bits and pieces of SAM.
Back when we were in South Africa, I used to rant about this guy named Sbu! I'd be like Sbu took me here! Sbu's great! Sbu this, Sbu that, blah blah blah. And SAM was always just like.... why are you telling me this? Yeah, making this man jealous, didn't seem like the easiest thing in the world.
But now! NOW it's a completely different story.
Now SAM is the kind of guy who will wave his friends over to say 'hi" to me and then quickly shoo them away for talking to me for too long. -_-
If I even tell him I'm going out? That's the end of the conversation. He wants ZERO parts of me going out, being around other guys, anything of the sort. And I have my own reservations about SAM being associated with girls who Study Abroad. C'mon, I'm American... I studied abroad... and look at me now -_-!! So many of you are probably like "Niomi, that makes perfect sense"
Well, when you are thousands of miles away from someone, being skeptical about them being around the opposite gender is a pretty tall order! To be quite frank, me and SAM are not IN a relationship, we HAVE a relationship, which are two completely different things. There are too many possibilities for other people (closer people) to walk in and out of our lives to set any real restrictions. So I guess we're technically:
"NO STRINGS ATTACHED"
Well this is where it gets verrrrry interesting, Are you with me here?
How many guys, do you know are opposed to a "no strings attached' relationship?
Show of hands?
Probably ZERO or maybe 2 or 3 if they lied.
And I've been there too many times to count, so SAM? SAM has a free pass to roam around South Africa
I'm floored.
I'm absolutely, 100% taken back by the idea that one guy wants to settle down here, in this world, with me ...& not with me, at the same time. And it might be hard to believe, but follow our story and you'll see just how true it is. I lay down my armor with him, I accept his jealousy as he accepts mine as a testament to the fact that I'm always in your corner, as long as you're always in mine.
We may not be perfect
So what's the verdict on jealousy guys? Healthy or Not? Is moderate jealousy a thing? Let me know! Comment and join the conversation. Orrrrrrr ....
Be the CURE!
Help me and SAM get closer so we don't need to be jealous @ gofundme.com/goingthedistance ! ($5 is all it takes to change a life, and catch a dream)
Dear Niomi,
ReplyDeleteI believe moderate jealousy is a thing, certainly. Personally, I have been told by many people that a relationship without jealousy means one of two things: 1. He does not care enough about you to get jealous. Or the more probable case 2. He trusts you enough to the point where he knows you won't do anything that would hurt him no matter how tempted you may be. HOWEVER, my opinion is that a little jealousy is healthy because it reminds one another that you want each other and no one else. Over-bearing jealousy is unnecessary; scary if anything...but a little touch of "hey, she's mine" is sweet. I wish you the best of luck with Sam.
Thank Anon! we definitely appreciate it :). And I would have to agree, those days in South Africa when I thought I couldn't make SAM jealous (and I TRIED) really made me unsure of how he felt about me, or what our status was. Moderate jealousy is definitely a little reassuring.
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